SHE WHO LEADS HERSELF™ · WORKSHOP SERIES
WORKSHOP 01 OF 03
Why Do I Keep
Getting In My Own Way?
A 90-minute workshop to discover the exact pattern that keeps you overriding your truth and the first step to rebuilding self-trust.
In this free 90-minute workshop you'll discover:
✓ Why intelligent, self-aware women still repeat the same patterns
✓ The hidden self-abandonment loop beneath behaviour
✓ Why insight alone isn't enough to create change
✓ The first step to rebuilding self-trust
Saturday 27 June 2026
9:00am AWST
Online · Live · 90 Mins
Free
No replay available.
This is a live experience.
YOU ALREADY KNOW THIS FEELING
"I know what I need to do. I just can't make myself do it."
"I start strong and then somehow end up back here again."
"I said yes. My whole body was saying no."
"I don't know why I keep second-guessing myself."
"I feel like I'm standing in my own way — and I can't figure out why."
You are not lazy. You are not broken. You are not lacking willpower or discipline or the right strategy.
You are living in the gap between who you know you are and how you keep showing up.
And no amount of insight, journalling, or another course has been able to close it. Because the gap is not in your mind. It is in your body.
THE WORKSHOP
This is where
it starts to shift.
In 90 minutes, you will understand the exact pattern that keeps you overriding your own truth — and you will experience, in your body, the first step toward changing it.
Not as a concept. As a felt shift.
Why you keep getting in your own way
The real reason — not the story you've been told about willpower or confidence or mindset.
Where it lives in your body
A somatic process that locates the pattern precisely — so you stop trying to think your way out of something your body is running.
The first step that actually changes it
Not more awareness. Capacity. The difference between knowing and being able to hold it in the moments that matter
This workshop is for you if...
You do not need to know any of my language to be here. You just need to recognise yourself.
You know what you want — but you keep talking yourself out of it before you begin
You say yes when you mean no, then feel resentful, then do it again
You've done the courses, the therapy, the inner work — and the pattern still shows up
You override your own knowing and spend days wondering why
You're highly capable in every area of life except trusting yourself
Something in you knows it is time to stop getting in your own way
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF
You are looking for more information, more frameworks, or another thing to add to what you already know. This workshop is not content. It is a live experience of what it feels like when the pattern starts to shift.
What we cover
90 minutes. Four movements. One real shift.
0 – 10 min Arrival — settling the nervous system
We begin by arriving. Not talking about arriving. Actually arriving. This is the methodology in action from the first moment you enter the room.
10 – 35 min The teaching - the pattern underneath the pattern
Why smart, self-aware women keep overriding themselves. What is actually happening in the moment you get in your own way. And why insight alone has never been enough to stop it.
35 – 60 min The somatic process - finding it in your body teaching
A guided body-based process that locates your specific pattern — not as an idea, but as a felt experience. This is where the shift begins. You leave this section already different.
60 – 80 min The Psychic-Somatic Spiral™ - what actually creates change
An introduction to the methodology that underpins She Who Leads Herself™. Why capacity — not more insight — is what closes the gap between knowing and living.
80 – 90 min Integration + next step
What to do with what just shifted. Q&A. And for the women who are ready — what is available next.
THE METHODOLOGY
The Psychic–Somatic Spiral™
Most personal development starts in the mind and hopes the body catches up. This work starts in the body — because it always overrides the mind anyway.
The Psychic–Somatic Spiral™ is a methodology built on one non-negotiable principle: regulation before expansion. Every time. Without exception.
Trigger
EMBODY
→
Regulate
LIBERATE
→
Move
LEAD
→
Expand
TRANSCEND
→
Integrate
ANCHOR
Fiona Marie
REGULATED EMOTIONAL LEADERSHIP
YOUR FACILITATOR
I teach what I have lived.
I lead from what was forged.
I am a former Chartered Accountant — Ernst & Young, Deloitte, Village Roadshow — who built a career that looked successful from the outside while her nervous system was running on survival inside.
The gap between knowing and living is not something I teach from a textbook. It is something I spent years inside. The pattern of getting in my own way — of knowing exactly what I wanted and not doing it, of overriding myself in relationships, in money, in visibility — I know it from the inside.
I built the Psychic–Somatic Spiral™ because I needed it. And then I watched it change the lives of the women who came into my containers. Not because I gave them more information. Because I created the conditions for the body to feel safe enough to hold what they already knew.
This workshop is the beginning of that.
"The gap is not what you know. The gap is what you can hold."
The Workshop Series
Three workshops.
One methodology.
A clear path forward.
Each workshop goes one layer deeper. Attend one or attend all three.
After the workshop
For the women who are ready
to go further.
This workshop is complete in itself. You will leave having experienced a real shift.
And for some of you, it will be the beginning of something larger. For those women, there is a next step.
She Who Leads Herself™
A 16-week group program for women who are done being inconsistent with themselves. You know the pattern. This is where you build the nervous system capacity to actually live differently — not occasionally, but as your baseline.
Enrollment closes 27 July 2026
Workshop attendees receive priority access to She Who Leads Herself™.
Details shared at the end of the session.
Reserve your spot.
Saturday 27 June · 9:00am AWST · Online · Live · Free · 90 Minutes
Fiona Marie
REGULATED EMOTIONAL LEADERSHIP
She remembers who she is. She lives as that woman. She becomes her. 🌹
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