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John Doe
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Jane Doe
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You keep losing yourself to keep everyone else happy. This is where that stops.
In love, in money, at work, in your family, in who you are when no one is watching. It’s the same pattern every time: you give yourself up to keep the peace, the love, the money or the approval. Safe to Be Me™ is private 1:1 mentorship for women and men ready to change that pattern at its root, not just manage it.
Apply for a heart-led callBy application, for people ready to commit to real change. A limited number of clients at a time.
Different areas of your life. The same pattern.
- In love: you lose your voice, your boundaries and your needs to keep the connection
- At work: you over-deliver, under-charge, and burn out proving yourself
- With money: it comes in and slips away, or you freeze when it’s time to ask for more
- In your family: you walk in the door and become the old version of you
- Inside: you know who you want to be, but keep performing who you were
- You’ve tried therapy, coaching or courses, and the root hasn’t been touched
You’re not broken. Somewhere along the way, your body learned that to be loved and to belong, you had to give up part of yourself. That made sense back then. It doesn’t now.
“I had done so much work on myself, but couldn’t understand why I was still stuck in negative cycles. My ability to observe myself in patterns grew, so that I could get out of the stories and make choices.”
Meg · She Who Leads Herself
We don’t work on the area. We work on the pattern.
You bring whatever is breaking right now. We follow it to the root, and when the root changes, it changes everywhere it was showing up.
Stay yourself while being loved
If you’re together, the relationship can transform. If it ends, or you’re single, you stop repeating the same dynamic.
Receive what you’re worth
Charge, ask, lead and be seen, without burning yourself out to prove you deserve it.
Stay the new you, at home
Love your family without shrinking back into the role you learned as a child.
Live as who you really are
Stop performing the version of you that kept you safe, and start living as the one that’s true.
I don’t promise a particular outcome in your life. What I know is that, whichever way it goes, you won’t lose yourself inside it.
The change that holds
| Before | After |
|---|---|
| High-functioning, running on adrenaline | More steadiness, more ease, and room to feel alive again |
| You know the pattern but can’t stop it | You catch it before it takes over, and choose again |
| You lose yourself to keep others happy | You stay with yourself in love, work, family and conflict |
| You tense up around money and being seen | You receive, charge and are seen from steady ground |
| Big breakthroughs that don’t last | Change that keeps building, and lasts |
The Psychic–Somatic Spiral™
This isn’t just talking about your problems. When the old pattern shows up, we work with it as it’s happening: we notice what your body does, help it calm down, and clear the old belief underneath, so next time you respond differently.
I also use my psychic (intuitive) gifts to see what’s sitting underneath: the things that are hard to put into words.
Safety first, then growth. Always. First your body learns it’s safe, then we build what you want. There’s no set script: the work meets you where you are, and goes as deep as you’re ready to go.
Serious change, for people ready to commit
Safe to Be Me™ is for established women and men: leaders, business owners and professionals who have built a lot on the outside and are ready to do the same work on the inside.
This isn’t a quick fix or something to dip a toe into. It’s a real commitment of your time, energy and money, and the change it creates is just as real. It’s designed for people who are ready to invest in themselves now, not someday.
Choose your depth
The Foundation
- Weekly 90-minute sessions for 4 months
- Specialised programming, created for you
- WhatsApp support between sessions
The Full Spiral
- Weekly 90-minute sessions, months 1–4
- Fortnightly sessions in months 5–6
- Specialised programming, created for you
- WhatsApp support throughout
- More time to go deeper and make the change last
Through the Psychic–Somatic Spiral™, you’ll
- Learn more about yourself: your patterns, your needs and what sits underneath them
- Learn how to self-regulate: calm your body and come back to yourself, even under pressure
- Choose one area of your life to work on, whether that’s love, money, work, family or identity, and transform it
Your investment and payment plans are shared on your call.
Start with one private session
A 90-minute session on Zoom, somatic or psychic, to feel the work for yourself. $399 incl. GST.
Losing yourself doesn’t belong to one gender
Men lose themselves too: in providing, in performing, in staying strong for everyone else. Safe to Be Me™ is open to anyone ready to stop trading themselves for love, safety or success.
From application to first session
A short questionnaire about where you are and what you want.
30–45 minutes to check this is right for both of us. Not every application is accepted.
Choose 4 or 6 months. Your agreement and welcome questionnaire arrive, plus a personal one from me.
We book your first session and start.
- Are a leader, business owner or professional ready to invest in yourself
- Want to change behaviour, not just understand it
- Are ready to commit your time, money and energy for 4–6 months
- Are willing to feel things, not push them away
- Want depth, privacy and sustained 1:1 attention
- Quick tips, or reassurance without responsibility
- Someone to decide whether you should stay or leave
- To be fixed, saved or told what to do
- To try something out before you’re ready to commit
- Crisis or clinical mental health support
What changes when you stop losing yourself
“This has completely changed my life. I used to force everything, because I thought I had to work really hard to earn money and that I wasn’t enough as I was. Now I know how to regulate, how to receive, how to relax and allow.”
“I realised there were beliefs, wounds and trauma holding me back from reaching my true potential. I was gently guided to look further than I had, and expand into speaking my truth and being seen in a way I had never done or felt before. Working with Fiona has been absolutely life changing.”
“Before, I often avoided looking at my finances. Now I feel in charge of them. Fi’s guidance is loving, encouraging and full of integrity: she holds you accountable while creating an environment of trust and safety.”
“There were many areas of my life where I felt powerless: I knew I was stuck in old patterns but didn’t know how to break out of them. Being seen in the mess and emotions I usually kept hidden was so liberating.”
“Being witnessed in the totality of my feelings and held with grace, compassion and love. It’s life-changing in the best way.”
I teach what I’ve lived
I’m a psychic and somatic mentor, which means I work with your intuition and your body, not just your mind. I live between Perth and Byron Bay. I spent years as a Chartered Accountant, high-functioning and far from myself, until life asked me to rebuild from the inside out.
I bring the same precision to this work, and a method I built and walked myself.
Do you work with men?
Yes. Safe to Be Me™ is for women and men.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s transformational mentoring. I’m trained in helping people change: not just understanding their patterns, but changing how they feel, respond and live. It works with your body and your intuition, and it goes to the root.
It isn’t therapy or a substitute for mental health care. If you’re in crisis, please reach out to a health professional first.
Where do sessions happen?
Online on Zoom, so you can work with me wherever you are.
What happens between sessions?
You have WhatsApp support, Monday to Friday, and practices to weave into your days. It’s a space to process and integrate, not a 24/7 crisis line.
Not ready for 4–6 months?
Start with a 90-minute private session on Zoom, somatic or psychic: $399 including GST.
Safe to be all of you.
If something in you said yes while reading this, trust it. Apply, and we’ll talk.
Apply for a heart-led callNot ready yet? Book a 90-minute session · $399 incl. GST